Besides it's more fun if you are enjoying it otherwise it's just plain sex...
I'm an adult woman who is very straight forward no bullshit type.I love a funny witty man that knows the difference between a sexual touch and a sensual one night relationship or a buddy. Ps if you're in your 30s-50s (or even older i really don't care) and feel weird about doing sexual acts with someone my age don't because i'd prefer someone experienced.
Lol we would love to meet a lady who is open minded and would be not only comfortable with.